Sunday, August 20, 2006

Ripple = Abundance

This last Tuesday evening I had the pleasure of getting to see Steve speak to a local business group. He’s a wonderfully dynamic speaker who has no need to be tied to a podium; thus he really gets to share his energy, and his message, directly with his audience.

I’ve been pondering an aspect of Steve’s message since that evening: viewing each encounter as a treasure-trove of opportunities.

He is right. Each encounter with another human being is a treasure-trove of opportunities. Yet, making this way-of-being work for one’s self requires an essential component: having an Abundance mindset.

“Networking” comes from a Scarcity mindset: because there’s not enough to go around, you have to prejudge others, “pre-qualify” them. Engaging in dialogue is not a concern because if someone does not have what you want, what you need, why should you care.

Having an Abundance mindset allows you to understand that, because everyone does not literally have exactly the same needs, there truly is plenty to go around. You also realize it is worth it to engage in dialogue because it is amazing what you can learn from others, and it is amazing how you may be of service to others.

Look at it form the standpoint of Spiritually Based Enlightened Self Interest™. When you have the courage, in the face of your own wants and needs, to engage in dialogue with another, when you have the courage to open yourself to the possibility of being of service to another in even the smallest way, you are sending positive energy out into the Universe that will come back to you tenfold.

Cultivate an Abundance mindset.
Create Ripples.
Reap the rewards.

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

The Ripple of Inspiration

Everyone finds inspiration from different places. My hope is that many of you will find inspiration in the people you meet and the experience you have during an 8 Minute Ripple. The rippling is actually only part of it....it's the connection after the events that make the most impact...at least for me. I suspect for you as well. One such ripple is an online connection I made that continues to ripple for me despite not ever meeting this individual.

This connection is a passionate gentleman from up North that is making a nice living speaking and presenting on the concepts of the 'ripple.' His name is Paul Wesselmann with The Ripple Project. Paul sends out an inspirational newsletter you should check out as well as a conversational forum that has been fun to read and now write in.

Recently he started a thread about what body of water stirs you. I felt compelled to share it with you, my friends, as it gives you just a glimpse of my inspiration and where I feel (or felt) most grounded. The post is as follows:



There was this little stream that ran through the Jemez mountains (1.5 hours NW of Albuquerque) where my dad and I used to fish. It is without question, my most favorite place on Earth.

It was the perfect little winding stream that stood at the base of an amazing mountain range. In the early morning, we would shiver with cold waiting, no, begging for the sun to hurry up and finally escape the tops of the mountain range and warm our wet feet which had been soaked on the small hike from the road to the beautiful little stream. When the sun came down, it was like the world was born anew and all was right in the world.

The trickle of water as it causually poured through the grassy landscape made just enough bubbly noise to make you feel alive. The wind in the trees reminded me with each rushing whoosh that they were the stewards of the land and they remained ever watchful of this little place I called paradise. Watching and waiting each year until my dad, who was and is still my best friend, returned each year.

I moved away in 1991 and sometime after that, Dad and I journeyed to our sanctuary on one of my return trips home. We discovered that the road leading to this desolate little place was no longer open and to this day, we have not discovered why. We just know our little piece of watery paradise now sits, alone and likely empty. A standing testament to the wonderful memories Dad and shared.

The trees in my mind often remind me that they are still there, watching, waiting and protecting my little paradise...somehow hoping we will return some day.

Whenever I need to return to what is really important in life, I return, although only in spirit, to that little perfect stream. I drop my line into it's cold cold water and wait for that tug. It refreshes me to this day and the bubbles and the whoosh of the wind are the only sounds that really warm my heart.

Thanks for making me think of this today Paul!

Ripple On!

Steve Harper